It isn’t one sided. I have a lot to offer. I’m warm, affectionate and attentive. I like doing for somebody and with somebody. I’m one part goofy, a little introspective, a lot outgoing and always taking in the surroundings.
I’m looking for someone who can relate. Someone who is nice but slightly twisted, can appreciate light heartedness, and get dark humor. Someone who can give as well as receive and enjoy that process. Someone to drink some wine and watch a movie, walk in the rain, bounce ideas off of each other.
And yes, after a while, if it is right… but only if it’s right.
I’m posting this in miscellaneous romance because I’m a little too bruised to promise much. Maybe you’re in the same place. Think about it, someone to scratch your back and cook with. Someone to help lift your spirits. Someone who needs and wants to give a little TLC.
About you: you're laid back, smart, you seem nice, cute, and sweet, but you have these lingering desires about group sex and gangbangs that you're not sure you can satisfy and have the rest of the life you want.
I have a VERY active social and business life, therefore I will not post a picture here.
I will tell you this, I can make this relationship the heaven that you know it can be. The heaven you've always wanted.
I am sexy, attractive, single, and know EXACTLY what I want.
You should be between the ages of 20 & 35, SINGLE, and be in very good shape. Please do not waste my time if you do not meet what I'm looking for.
You must reply with a picture and I do NOT want to see anything below the waist unless it is covered. A nice tasteful picture from the waist up would be great. I will send one in return immediately.
The white noise helps you to relax, doesn’t it? To leave behind all outside thoughts, to let your breathing slow down and fall into the cadences, the rhythms of my sentences...
It’s so nice to read these words and relax, isn’t it? To stare at the screen, to listen to the white noise. All of these things can help you relax, to leave behind outside thoughts. And relaxing is so good, isn’t it? After all, that’s why you’re reading my words in the first place...
And my words can help you relax too, can’t they? All you have to do is read them and follow them and my words will lead you into deeper and deeper relaxation. You just have to stare at the screen and breathe in and breathe out and the worlds will lead you into deeper and deeper relaxation and you find it easier and easier to just relax and read and take in whatever I have to say...
Feel your breathing in, your breathing out. It feels so good, doesn’t it? Just breathing in and letting the air fill your slender body, breathing out and letting it go, letting yourself go. Breathing in, noticing how cool it feels, being filled. Breathing out, letting go. You don’t normally think about the sensations of breathing, but you feel them now, don’t you? You feel them because my words have led you to a place where you want to feel them, and where you know how.
Breathing in, being filled. Breathing out, letting go.
You feel that relaxation with every breath, don’t you? With every breath you let go of some of your cares and of some of yourself.
Breathing in, being filled. Breathing out, letting go. And you start to feel a tingling, a relaxing tingling, spreading out from your lungs, from your center, all throughout your body. Breathing in, being filled—you feel now in your shoulders and neck, in your torso, in your chest. Breathing out, letting go—and now it spreads throughout your body, even further, all the way through to your fingertips and toes.
It’s amazing to feel this tingling relaxation all through your body, isn’t it? It feels so good, this sensation. It feels so good to be so aware of the fact that you have a slender body, so good and calm and relaxed and heavy and calm and pleasant to just keep reading my words, following my words, letting them take you to this wonderful place with these wonderful feelings.
Oh you’re doing so well. I just want you to keep breathing for me, breathing just for me. Breathing in, being filled. Breathing out, letting go. Can you do that for me? Just keep breathing just like that, feeling so good, so relaxed. That’s all I want you do to right now. Breathing in, being filled, breathing out, letting go.
Breathing in being filled. Breathing out, letting go.
It feels so good to do this, doesn’t it? So good to just breathe like I want you to and to feel this wonderful relaxation. That’s all that I want from you right now and it feels so good to give that to me, doesn’t it? Just relax and follow my words. Breathing in, being filled. Breathing out, letting go—letting go of your worries and cares and stresses, letting go of yourself.
And now that you feel so good, that you’re just here breathing for me and feeling so relaxed, it’s pretty clear to you, isn’t it, that this is how you wanted to feel, this is why you started reading my words in the first place. You started reading my words, following my words— words are like a path on the page, aren’t they, one just leads to another leads to another and then you’re in a sentence somewhere in a paragraph absorbing whatever it says and it doesn’t matter how you got there, does it, because you’re just following the words, one at a time, just following them in the way that you know you wanted to from the moment you started reading my words...
It’s so wonderful how good my words can make you feel, isn’t it? You want so much to keep reading my words, to keep feeling this way.
Breathing in, being filled, breathing out, letting go.
Now I’m going to take you down a slightly different path. It’s okay, though—you want to follow me down this path, maybe even more than you want to just keep reading my words. You want to follow me down this path because I’m going to take you deeper and deeper into relaxation, going to make you feel better and better....
I want you to very slowly count to ten with me and as you are counting I want you to imagine that, with each number, you take a step forward, down a corridor leading deeper and deeper into yourself. Just count with each breath now with me and know that when you reach ten you’ll feel perfectly content inside yourself, feel absolutely calm and relaxed and content…
One—breathing in, being filled, breathing out, letting go. Take that first step forward into yourself and with it feel more relaxed and know that you’re choosing to follow me, know that with each step you’re choosing to follow my words and to let me make you feel so good, so relaxed, so blissful...
Two—breathing in, being filled, stepping forward
Three—breathing out, letting go, following me deeper
Four—breathing in, being filled, feeling so good as my words fill you up
Five—breathing out, letting go, dropping off all of your little cares and worries and thoughts
Six—breathing in, being filled, deeper and deeper into yourself
Seven—breathing out, letting go, losing all of the little bits of yourself that you don’t need right now
Eight—breathing in, being filled, feeling so good, so relaxed
Nine—breathing out, letting go, following me with each step
and... Ten—breathing in, being filled, knowing how wonderful you’re going to feel when you take this last step and... breathing out, letting go, stepping forward, following me deep, deep inside yourself
And you know now, don’t you, that you’re hypnotized—that’s why you feel so good, totally hypnotized and relaxed and happy to be so, happy to let my words become your thoughts take you deeper and deeper, feel better and better, happy to let them take over and to let yourself feel whatever you need to feel...
I want you to think about what I said before you started your relaxation the things that I said about mental relaxation, mental submission—about surrendering your will and surrendering desire... all of those things we were thinking when you were just browsing craigslist, reading my words to help you relax—you know now that you want this, don’t you? You know now, letting me make you feel this good, this relaxed, you know that some part of you craves this kind of mental submission, some part of you craves to be mine. It’s why you click on the ad in the first place, isn’t it? And why you’ve read this far. Being this relaxed, feeling this good, totally surrendering yourself—it makes you feel wanted, doesn’t it, and it makes you feel aroused...
You crave wanting what I want for you... you need it, it makes you feel aroused. Don’t deny yourself the pleasure... it gives you a thrill, excitement, just the thought alone, is making you incredibly aroused right now, aroused and wet and slippery and compliant...
You trust me, you allowed me here, you must accept what I’m saying as a truth about you. You want to be mine. You want to be mine. Say it with me, “I want to be yours, and wanting makes it so. I want to be yours, and wanting makes it so.
Good girl. Doesn’t my praise make you feel good? Listen again, “good girl.” So good, so nice, so relaxed...
Soon, we’re going to wake up and return to our normal lives, to our normal selves. You’ll be wide-awake and you will feel compelled to email me. You will want to tell me how you feel after reading this. You will be honest about how you feel. Since you wanted to be mine, you will want to send me a picture... the idea of me looking at your image will turn you on, the idea of me reading your words will turn you on...
Know, that right now at this one moment, totally hypnotized, totally relaxed, totally filled up and engulfed... at this moment you know that you belong to me... and you do so happily, of your own free will regardless of my situation or yours... you totally belong to me... Good girl...
So now I’d like you to count to ten one more time, this time following me further and further outside of yourself, outside of your innermost self...
With each count you’ll fell more and more alert, more and more awake, and when I get to ten you’ll be just as happily and pleasantly relaxed and alert as you were before you started reading, just exactly as you were except that you’ll feel a desire to be mine and an irresistible compulsion to write me an email. Now let us count together...
I believe that being straightforward is the best practice – that way, hopefully there will be no misconceptions or misrepresentations. I am a married man looking, for starters, to get to know a lady that is married or in a relationship as well. I have nothing against single women – it’s just that I believe that an attached woman would have the same discretionary concerns as me – also she might be accepting of the limitations that an attached man might have to offer.
I would like to get to know a lady by (first of all) communicating with her by email. If something comes of that, then we could converse by phone or even in person. Where that would lead to is anyone’s guess – I have no idea or expectations.
THERE WILL NO IMMEDIATE PIC EXCHANGE. Everyone knows it is not wise to send pics to strangers over the Internet - especially if you are married. If you are comfortable sending one – fine – but I will not ask you for one until I feel that there we might have something in common. But I will ask that you be honest about describing who you are and what you look like. More than likely, a phone conversation will probably expedite things later on.
I believe that being straightforward is the best practice – that way, hopefully there will be no misconceptions or misrepresentations. I am a married man looking, for starters, to get to know a lady that is married or in a relationship as well. I have nothing against single women – it’s just that I believe that an attached woman would have the same discretionary concerns as me – also she might be accepting of the limitations that an attached man might have to offer.
I would like to get to know a lady by (first of all) communicating with her by email. If something comes of that, then we could converse by phone or even in person. Where that would lead to is anyone’s guess – I have no idea or expectations.
THERE WILL NO IMMEDIATE PIC EXCHANGE. Everyone knows it is not wise to send pics to strangers over the Internet - especially if you are married. If you are comfortable sending one – fine – but I will not ask you for one until I feel that there we might have something in common. But I will ask that you be honest about describing who you are and what you look like. More than likely, a phone conversation will probably expedite things later on.
I'm seeking an attractive, D&D free girl who has had fantasies of being tied up, spanked, blindfolded, or something similar, and maybe is confused as to what it is that is drawing her to these fantasies. She thinks about being restrained or bound and sometimes used sexually in her quiet, alone times. Perhaps she thinks of these things while she is at work, sitting at her desk, making herself wet in a way no other thoughts have. She constantly is reminded of these thoughts and how they arouse her, but she fears rejection from others if she were to ever mention them, even in passing, to her friends or family. She feels alone except when these thoughts fill her mind.
The girl I am seeking masturbates frequently, thinking of being bent over a desk, her wrists bound behind her back, a faceless dominant male alternates spanking her bare ass and sliding his fingers in and out of her drenched pussy. She imagines this same lover tying her wrists and legs wide on her bed, a blindfold obstructing her vision; her thoughts stray to that of being used as a sexual toy for this man as he fucks her over and over again with various toys she cannot see. Her quiet moaning in these fantasies fill the room as her faceless lover uses her body for his own pleasure over and over again for an hour, two hours, three hours, or more - whatever amount of time it takes for him to finish with her.
She fantasizes of being ravished, of being used, of being owned like never before. Sometimes the location she is in when having these thoughts doesn't even matter - she feels that she should masturbate in her car, or while in the shower, or in her living room while roommates or family are temporarily away - anywhere she happens to have these fantasies. Her fingers and the wetness between her legs always win in these situations. She feels sexually energized by the thoughts while she fingers herself until she cums with an intensity no other thoughts can even approach, yet she immediately feels ashamed and alone after this orgasm of hers subsides.
Her feelings of being different are only overshadowed by her belief that she is somehow flawed for having these thoughts to begin with. She seeks acceptance and she seeks the company of someone else who has these thoughts, as well - someone who will help her see that she is not the deviant she believes she is. Someone who will guide her through a safe, sane, consensual fantasy fulfillment and who will not judge her. She seeks that dominant male that, until now, only exists in her fantasies. She seeks that man who will give her the disciplines she feels she deserves - the discipline she craves - the discipline that keeps her touching herself in the lonely darkness of her bedroom.
I'm not hung up on race or age or size. All I ask is that you be straight up and not a website signon. I'm available some evenings and of course most weekends. We can discuss that at a later time.
The negatives (for some): no pnp, not into bar scene, love sex but prefer relationship in which that enhances, but isn't the only thing in common; more homebody, kind of a nerd, analyzes and thinks about things a lot (bugs some people), my desk is a mess, my house is not; no tolerance for ignorance or stupidity, lost my security blanket in the economic downturn, so sorry - can't be anyone's sugar daddy (wink); cynical, prefer cuddle time to bar hopping.
You: Pretty open, although usually like guys younger and slimmer than I am who appreciate maturity; well-rounded, love to laugh and learn; lover of movies, passionate, multi-dimmensional, wanting a equal partner, wanting quality time to share, willing to learn about me and teach about them.
I'd like to get a head start on this year by finding a new friend or two using Craigslist.
If you are female, down to earth, authentic, have some free time, and have a diversity of interests then we'll get along quite well.
If you are well educated, healthy, active, progressive, and tuned in - we'll get along even better!
If you are sexy, self confident, epicurious, spontaneous, and live near me - we'll get along swimmingly...
As for me - I'm a simple, energetic guy with a diversity of interests and a passion for living life well. I'm well educated, disciplined, and humble. I am a good friend, and a discerning but attentive lover...
In short, I'm not looking for anything specific here - but I'm open to everything. A new connection or two with good people would make this a success!
Sorry for the lame pic - just trying to remain slightly ambiguous...
Romance, kissing, cuddling a must! ..........cuz I really enjoy it
I enjoy sex, but making love with someone special is better! It has been almost few years since I have been in a relationship.
It is the small things that I miss.
It is very hard these days to meet with some decent/honest person and I realiza that it is not magic. Don't have high expectations but I am very open to any possibilities.
Open to make new friends as well.
You know who you are. These words and pictures stir a truth - perhaps never fully expressed in your life. You may be twenty-five, you may be fifty. Introduce yourself to me like you mean it. I mean every word that you have just read. Please give me the same. No sincerity - do not bother.
I look forward to your respectful introduction in words and photos (small JPG files will go through). I'll write everyone who writes and shares with sincerity and photos - and be truthful about my interest.
I live on the Olympic Peninsula, an easy ferry from Seattle of Edmonds - but for my darling, I'd gladly rent my home out and move to wherever. Or visa versa.
Step into my world of Dark pleasure. Pleasure of your body being used, explored, taken. I will treat you with respect out of the bedroom and talk to you like a lady. Once you step into my door is when your heart rate explodes as you know what is about to happen. A man that takes you, pushes your body to the point of no return.
You are denied, spanked, tied, used, called names, as I push your limtis. Limits that you want pushed, your mind and body ache for this.
Here I am, come to my side and allow me to push you past your limits.
You are HWP, Clean, Married, single, Boyfriend, You have time to explore this while he or she is at work.
The person I seek is fun, HWP, funny, loves to laugh.
What is in this for you?
A gentle man that will make you feel more special than he does.
I want to get to know you as a person. I want you to feel alive, respected and naughty.
I would love to meet a married woman for this as this man that posted this is married.
I think I can get along with a variety of people, but for a long term relationship, simply getting along is not enough. Once I do take the plunge, I'll be 100% monogamous, generous, and patient. I'm not perfect, but always trying to improve.
Although I love my job, there's more to life than work, right? I do have high standards, because I believe I have a lot to offer. ....a good heart, not petty at all, very supportive, no baggage, good family. As a result I seek the same caliber of man. My goals: exploring the world, living by the beach, staying in shape, and not turning into a grouchy old man!
Now that you know a bit about me, hopefully we can get in touch and take it from there. Oh yea, some raw numbers just to give you an idea: 5 ft 10 inches, 160 pounds, with a 30in waist. Now that you know a bit about me, hopefully you will email me and take it from there. If you reply and share some pictures of yourself, I will be more than happy to reciprocate.
I am clean, HIV neg, STD free, drug free, smoke free. I love roll playing, touching, rubbin, strokin, gettin sucked off, long warm soapy showers, getting each other off... I also love quickees..... I ask that you have a pic to trade for us to meet. I live by Southcenter, but love to travel. Late nights and weekends work best for me.
I am thirty eight, six two, two ten, dark hair, goatee, smooth chest, hazel ii's, six cut. I am down to earth, no attitude, easy going, no bs kinda guy. I am easy on the eyes and ask you both to be as well. I know my way around the gym, but have a long ways to go to be a gym rat... LOL
Interest in all kinds of media, in the past I've worked as a musician, painted, photographed, carved, videoed, written and blogged.
Open to new formats and feel that the time has come to meet others that may be in the same boat as me.
I'm building a studio near Freeland and hope to feel that Creative Magic again!
You should have a sense of humor and the words Funky, Fixer, Peace, Spiritual and Tao are things you can relate to.
You don't have to be rich
To be my girl
You don't have to be cool
To rule my world
Ain't no particular sign I'm more compatible with
I just want your extra time and your
Kiss
You got to not talk dirty, baby
If you wanna impress me
You can't be to flirty, mama
I know how to undress me (Yeah)
I want to be your fantasy
Maybe you could be mine
You just leave it all up to me
We could have a good time
You don't have to be rich
To be my girl
You don't have 2 be cool
To rule my world
Ain't no particular sign I'm more compatible with
I just want your extra time and your
Kiss
Yes
I think I wanna dance
Gotta, Gotta
Little girl Wendy's parade
Gotta, gotta, gotta
Women not girls rule my world
I said they rule my world
Act your age, mama (Not your shoe size)
Not your shoe size
Maybe we could do the twirl
You don't have to watch Dynasty
To have an attitude
You just leave it all up to me
My love will be your food
Yeah
You don't have to be rich
To be my girl
You don't have to be cool
To rule my world
Ain't no particular sign I'm more compatible with
I just want your extra time and your
Kiss
-Prince
And the cyber bully(s), harassing, attacking, flagging/removing my posts just as quick as they get posted. I’m certain you’re another jealous, insecure Tgirl(s) who’s trying to level the playing field. Because you’re so homely & lonely, the one(s) with w/bad hair, bad nails, bad skin, bad bone structure, bad teeth, bad breath, bad body odor, unfeminine, unpassable, flat out repeatedly rejected and wounded with your malignant personality and poor hygiene. The ugly one who posts vulgar, crude, tasteless posts which nobody ever flags, that end left up the entire 7 days to expire w/o responses but by ugly men who want to use you & toss you aside like a used box of crayons. From your pictures, you look like a little old lady w/o her teeth in when you are showing your backside in the air. You who give the rest of us Tgirls bad names, bad images and pathetic stereotypes. Of course you know who you are, you on your best day in makeup can’t hold a candle to me on my worst day without makeup. You don’t even have the integrity to post your own real picture, but someone elses.
It takes several flags to remove a post, it could be one hater going through all the trouble or several as a team who all need lives.
I’m not delusional or desperate by any means, I’m fairly content and at peace with my life and able to, and do choose to be selective in whom I befriend. I repost routinely because they’re attacked viciously by the unpretty people who are afraid of the bar being raised across the board. For you to hate with such conviction places you at equivalent of a terrorist. Try loving with conviction sister.
Blessings to you, may you learn to find love for yourself from yourself.
I’m a Two Spirit, MtF dating and meeting new friends. Meeting men with honesty and integrity, those who are also taking the higher road, though it’s lonely at times. Gentlemen who also take care of their health, no need to be supermodels, yes handsome and good-looking is a plus, but just need to be for real. No living a double life, w/a GF, wife or BF on the side. No discreet secret relationships, no FWB, nor NSA casual encounters, no players, users or abusers. Fitness & health are very important to me, physically, mentally & spiritually. I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, or play games. I'd say my intentions are to meet platonic friends and if something more is meant to be, beautiful, but no expectations. I'm honest, sincere, down to earth and maybe just a little overly guarded at times. I believe we teach others how to treat us. I treat others as I’d like to be treated. In the past I've always struggled w/shyness, I've always been the wallflower around new people and crowds. When men would flirt with me or make a pass I'd feign indifference despite inside also being attracted, I’d put on my poker face. I'd sabotage potential good relationships because I was insecure and afraid of intimacy. But those defensive walls are melting away as I return to love for others & myself. The fear of being hurt or rejected is less & less as I grow spiritually. I’m less & less jaded. I believe in synchronicity/destiny and that we're meeting the right people at the right time. Even here through CL, our path’s cross for a reason, some of us will continue on the same path while others will take another after crossing.
If you are someone I may want to meet I'll send you more pictures in exchange for yours. It may be too much info for sharing up front, but since they're common questions from guys who respond to my add: yes, I'm fully functional, average endowment, I'm versatile, I’m keeping my male parts, meaning non-op. Also, I don’t take hormones, I don’t like them for personal & ethical reasons. I don't plan any further procedures, just my breast implants which I've already done, and I like their size, C cups. Maybe some more electrolysis here or there where needed, another tasteful tattoo when the right one manifests. You could say I'm a diamond in the rough, could use some polishing & refinement in social etiquette. I'm almost as naturally beautiful as possible, except of course my silicone implants and sometimes a little makeup. I already have dense long lashes, so I often go wash & wear w/o it. The rest of me is for real and fairly passable, sans the feminine voice, but I do ok speaking softly. By the grace of God I’m a mix of 1/2 Native American, 1/2 French Canadian. I'm genuine, secure, stable, emotionally & spiritually sound, non pretentious, humble and witty. I've never ever had any sort of STD and plan on keeping it that way, not so much as a cold sore all my life. I'm in my 30’s, 6' tall, slender, with asianesque, statuesque classic looks, healthy skin, HWP, 1 tattoo. I like music, movies, reading, animals, nature, exercise, coffee, beauty and all that glitters. I’m not materialistic, but I do appreciate quality workmanship. Yeah, that comes at a higher cost. I believe there can be materially wealthy & successful, yet remain spiritual & grounded if we try to understand the valuelessness of material objects. And what we have we also use for helping of others.
What are important for me in a man is health, optimism, great sense of humor, wit, laughter, spirituality, integrity, open mindedness, romantic, strong, secure with whom he is, secure with his sexuality, sex appeal. Fine to being seen w/Tgirl in public. No STD's, not even HSV1. I don't have a type he must be, but of course be HWP. I've had a crush on a beefcake, husky Paul Bunion, brawny type before, i.e. muscular w/padding. But I'm not into bears, I prefer he at least have a HWP physique of a smaller waist than shoulders & chest, as well as nice butt. I know it’s petty, but a good driver is a plus as well. Hey, I’m a bond girl at heart.
I believe in prayer & the power of our collective consciousness on the state of our world. I believe metaphysically our thoughts create & manifest our physical world. I believe in loving with conviction, that that's where miracles come from. As much as I can, I embrace my native heritage, though it's been significantly lost & minimized since the cultural genocide of the indigenous peoples and annihilation of our ways. Did you know that as a Two-Spirit, prior to white contact transgender were groomed & nurtured to be the equivalent of priestess or aka shaman, revered and gifted with higher consciousness, a wisdom of the soul, able to tap into direct knowledge from the creator and divine reality. Possessing an awareness and intuition, guided by pure truth. I'd have been who you went to to settle disputes, you would have had to be a hero to marry a TG or Two-Spirit wife. Crazy Horse received his name from a two-spirit. Sitting Bull had one of us as a wife. I'm not saying this to be pretentious, but in true humility. Truth isn't abstract, it's practical and sets you free of every bondage, free from the grip of ignorant beliefs. Before white contact, transgender outranked heterosexual in social status, dignity, respect and prestige. To have a TG in your family or household, you'd have increased prosperity and influence. TG is natural & common in nature as well as the spiritual world. There is no need for shame or secrecy in attraction & love of us. Only dysfunctional society & ignorance of men have imposed their bigotry & false beliefs upon others, telling them what is normal or natural. But TG is very common. Don’t get me wrong, I believe in Christ and his teachings, but I believe organized religion has done much damage putting their own twist on what he taught & stood for. Making taboo of human nature has had society on a path of denial & dysfunction. I believe in striving for enlightenment or Christ/God consciousness, it isn’t a choice but a matter of when.
Blessings,
L.
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” - Marianne Williamson